LOVE & LOVE

Siri Marriage (Pernikahan Siri) notably been discussed both electronic and print media. Surely the meaning of marriage siri familiar to us all. Siri marriage clearly does not follow the government order. Although siri marriage violate government rules, but some people still do it with a variety of reasons. The important thing is legitimate and lawful in the eyes of God.

Before the government interfered in the marriage, previous marriage legitimate. Long before such marriage of our grandparents, even long before that is fine and keep it halal. Why the government to interfere?.

Let us read again the dignity of the people (society) which includes generation of our grandparents and before. Then see the dignity of public life today. Much different and even very different. Weddings (marriage) first time was completely filled with compassion and is a sacred event. When present, such as marriage divorce regular occurrence. If you have the same love-marriage-love yaaa. If you do not like anymore yaaa better just divorced.

Perhaps there are those among us who still remember the "Kamasutra". At that time the public how noble did the husband-wife relationship loving and it sacred. Hope that's cool it for their descendants to be good people. Now declared a kamasutra porn. Because kamasutra full today with excessive spices.

Back to siri marriage. Government attention to the events of life in some communities where the wife and children to be displaced by the male ego tantrum. Male ego felt as household ruler can do anything against his wife and children. Government concerned. Eventually the government stepped in to the rights and obligations as a husband, wife and children clear. Arranged in the government rules regarding the procedure of marriage through the Office of Religious Affairs (KUA) as a formal marriage.

Siri marriage wrong?. Can not be blamed entirely. In the eyes of the government through the KUA is true when the blame, but in the eyes of God remain lawful. From the other side, the government needs to reread "why there siri marriage", but formal marriage is not against potential partner.

Siri marriage a job that is not criminal. Siri marriage so that no criminal should be blamed as the following statements "nikah siri tidak harus dipidanakan (Radar Banjarmasin, Opini; Jumat 19/03/2010, Hal.3)”. Government should think seven times. Government should not impose the will of the KUA is beyond the power of Illahi Rabbi. Although they eventually become a criminal blame, but their marriage remains valid and lawful in the eyes of Illahi Rabbi. This can not be denied by anybody.

Siri marriage or not (formally married) is the same. Husband shall be responsible for domestic life. In religion has been arranged, including inheritance rights. Two human bondage in marriage associated with their responsibilities toward his God. Need is underlined that all depends on their human dignity.